# People Care Too Much About Sex This might be a byproduct of hedonism. But humans always have wanted sex so I can't assure. Ethics aside, I don't think that you actually NEED to care about it that much. That's simply not practical. Especially if you are an incel, I think that you don't need to care ANYTHING about it before having a partner. Don't get me wrong. I'm not against sex itself if it's proper. I'm not an antinatalist or something. Proper sex means connecting with your partner physically, emotionally, and spiritually to make a metaphysical unity. So it's meaningless without a proper relationship.