# People Care Too Much About Sex This might be a byproduct of hedonism. But humans always have want ed sex so I can't assure. Ethics aside, I don't think that you actually need to care about i t that much. That's simply not practical. Especially if you are an incel, I think that you don't need to care ANYTHING about it befor e having a partner. Don't get me wrong. I'm not against sex itself if it's proper. I'm not an antinatalist or something. Proper sex means connecting with your partner physically, emotionally, and spiritually to make meta physical unity. So it's meaningless without a proper relationship. That also partially explains why porn is harmful.